Wedding plans are proceeding well. We have most things booked, the location, the registrar, the DJ, the chairs, the flowers, the bridesmaid dresses, the suits etc .. its all coming along swimmingly. We booked our Honeymoon to Cyprus for 10 days at the Hotel St George in Paphos. We had a slight glitch with the bridesmaid dresses in that they have stopped one of the colours we had picked, but this was quickly fixed by choosing a different dress in the old colour.
We have picked our Wedding Rings. Mine needs to be checked to see if they have it in my Ring size (U). Its a nice ring though and I really like it so I hope they can find it.
We now have a mortgage on our house, it went through in September so we bought it just as the ass fell out of the market bigtime … nice. Still, its a roof over our heads and its ours. Thus we have been decorating like there is no tomorrow at the moment, every weekend or spare night we get is spent decorating or preparing to decorate (least thats how it seems). Still it *will* be worth it in the end, i’m certain of that,
In my last but 2 post (dated 31st august) I said i’d post more about contacting members of my family about the wedding. The reason this is a difficult subject is that I haven’t seen or heard from my mother since I was 9 years old (22 years ago now) so I do not know if she still lives in the same house or if she is even alive. For simplicities sake I tend to just tell people she is dead but I do not know and something as major as news of my wedding should be passed on to her. I’ve asked my other brothers and sisters to see if they have information about her but they are also estrainged from her when she didn’t reply to information about the passing away of my father. So i’ve got a few ideas on how to contact her, one is to just send a letter to the address I have for her anyway and see what happens. The other is to check the Electoral role or the Births, Deaths and Marriages roles for Rochdale to see if she is in there. This obviously means a trip to Rochdale at some point so i’ll do that when I get round to it. She deserves to know and then its up to her if she wants to attend and try to rebuild a few bridges. Lets see what happens with that one.
That will do for a blog update for now, i’ll speak to you all again soon.